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Modemouth 03-16-2006 12:06 PM

You are what you drink/Psych 101 and fun
You are what you drink

If your date orders a Sex on the Beach, does that foreshadow romance at evening's end?

Don't count on it, but it's a good bet your date is feeling fun and flirty - and wants to let everyone know it.

Experts have made a science out of pegging people's inner qualities based on their outer actions. Personality shows up in everything we do, and folks judge us accordingly.

The music we download, the clothes we wear and the cars we drive reflect who we are, how we view the world and how we choose to interact in it at any given moment, says Cherry Creek psychologist Maximillian Wachtel.

The same principles apply to alcoholic beverages. Particularly so because they often contribute to the first impressions we make on others - sometimes on a date, other times at a business dinner or a family reunion.

But what do they say specifically?

For that we turned to the real experts: bartenders.

Our local mixologists take a lot of orders, and because they work the counters, they hang around long enough to hear customers talk and see how drinkers treat their spouses and sell their goods.

We asked them to share their observations and put together this guide.

Your drink: Beer

Your image: Easygoing

Order a brew, and folks see you as laid-back, reserved and blue-collar. You keep your drinks simple, and maybe that means you are too.

"This person is totally uncomplicated," says Dazzle bartender Jenean Sorenson. "They aren't worried about how old the scotch is. It's an easy decision for them. Their motto would be: 'Just poor it cold into a glass and give it to me.' "

Who are you? You are man, in your mid-30s to 50s, and you definitely have your favorite labels. Or you are a guy in your 20s, and you're broke and drinking $2 Pabst Blue Ribbon drafts. The message is the same: I'm just hanging out.

It's a little different for women, bartenders say. Most gals don't order beer, and the ones that do come off as sexy and approachable.

Why do you drink it? You don't want to get drunk. You just want to sit and talk with your friends, and not end up with a headache the next morning.

Your drink: Martinis, manhattans, champagne

Your image: High maintenance

Use more than two adjectives to order your drink (dry, neat, up, slushy, dirty whatever) or get picky (you want your lemons cut into wedges, not slices) and you can come off as pretentious, says Logan Grey, a bartender at the Roo Bar in Cherry Creek. A colleague, Dustin Gathright, a bartender at the 1876 Bar, agrees. He's happy to make what customers order, but "if a group is waiting to be served and someone comes up and orders something that takes like 15 minutes to make with multiple ingredients, that person is self-centered."

Who are you? When the bartender has the time, you are a sophisticated drinker. When she doesn't, you are a debutante wannabe, or a trendy metrosexual.

Why do you drink it? You just want it the way you want it. You don't realize you are fussy or picky - or maybe you do and simply don't care.

Your drink: Margaritas, piņa coladas, mojitos, fruity martinis

Your image: Adventurous

Salted rim or not, asking for a margarita makes you come off as fun-loving. You're not afraid to be goofy. You are trendy and knowledgable about the newest drink-craze flavors like mango and pomegranate and secure enough to sit behind a froufrou cocktail with a tiny umbrella sticking out of the top. "You may not be able to get away to Jamaica just yet, but for tonight, you are just one cocktail away from the dream," says Tracey Toomey, co-author of "The Perfect Manhattan."

Who are you? A bachelorette, a professional woman who just got off work, or part of a girls-night-out gang. A guy looking for a party.

Why do you drink it? It's time to let your hair down for the night. "When I drink a piņa colada, I go back to my Puerto Rican roots, and I feel like a hot Latin woman," says Abbie Karic, 53, of New York, who was in Denver last week for a conference.

Your drink: Scotch, bourbon, sauvignon blanc, pinot noir

Your image: Sophisticated

You are knowledgable and enjoy luxuries. You've taken the time to educate yourself about your spirits, have been drinking for a while and know exactly what you want. You are direct, precise and order your beverage straight or on the rocks because you love the taste. "These are the kind of people who would never foul up a good single-malt scotch by mixing it with a Sprite," says Billy Riesing, a bartender at Bender's 13th Avenue Tavern.

Who are you? A man or woman in your mid- to late 30s and beyond.

Why do you drink it? Your palate is complex. You want to savor the drink and sip it. You are too old to handle the hangover that comes from drinking sugary blends. And a fine wine is always an acceptable drink.

Your drink: Chardonnay or merlot; blank and tonic (gin, vodka or whatever)

Lori Ann 03-16-2006 12:34 PM

Wow...very interesting...I agree with most of the insights. I bartended back in college and most of the observations were dead on (especially the customers who order complicated drinks when you are slammed, yikes!). I do usually order fun and fruity drinks when on vacation but I almost always now have a simple glass of red wine...something interesting and I'll usually take the bartender's suggestions.....

Lori:happysmiley: Ann

Michele 03-16-2006 01:49 PM

I drink a lot of milk and haven't had an alcoholic drink in months. I'm afraid to as what that would make me ......speechless

Krissy 03-16-2006 02:20 PM

It makes you smart.. :)

JeffGordonsNo1Fan 03-16-2006 03:15 PM

hubby says:
It makes me easy! OOOOPS!i dunno hmmm maybe so!:bunnydance:

pepper60 03-16-2006 05:17 PM

Never was much of a beer drinker
I never did get into beer drinking even in my younger days. Just never
took to the taste.

When I was young, wild, and didn't care I went for the mixed drink. But
found I woke up not remembering how I got home. And, I embarrassed
myself a couple times doing things only a drunk broad would do in public.
So I stopped that.

I moved on to what the bartenders call 'high maintenance" I guess cuz
I would order vodka martinis straight up with olives. But held myself to
only 2 so I wouldn't wake up with no memory.

For many years now, I drink wine when I get together with family or
very very close friends. Sometimes I will have a glass or 2 at home alone.
And still have an occasional martini when I'm dining out with family or friends.

Smoothlady 03-16-2006 05:27 PM

Very interesting.............
I drink water and Diet Pepsi????
I know,
Party Pooper waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Lori Ann 03-16-2006 05:54 PM

Not at all Smoothlady...I think that drinking (or not) is a phase we all go through. I shudder to think of all the foolishness me and my friends got into when we were in our 20's...can't believe we survived. By the time you hit 40 having a cocktail or two is no big are settled into your life and are probably not running out to the bars every Friday night as you may have when you were in your 20's.....

Not drinking is quite fashionable these days:thumbsup: (someone forget to tell that to the crew I hang out with , hee, hee, hee)

Lori :happysmiley: Ann

Krissy 03-16-2006 06:00 PM

The Brew Crew! :beerchug:

Dru15 03-16-2006 07:30 PM

I drink Iced Tea, Coffee, Lemonade and Milk. So I guess I'm kind of boring.:coffeesmiley:

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