Last year we paid 100.00 a head, but we only had 23 people and we had a gourmet meal. We also had a quartet and open bar for the duration.
Flowers were cheap as was the minister and tuxes. I purchased my gown at a 80% savings and our limo rental was a gift from my in laws.
We did have a photographer but purchased the rights to the proofs and had the 8x10's done elsewhere.
We ended up with what we both wanted. A nice elegant Wedding in a Historical house surrounded by the people who meant the most to us.