Yes, we would have been neighbors. My toddler wakes up once or twice in the night. We start him off in his own bed but when he wakes up we put him in our bed. There's so many pros and cons about this subject. We really tried soooooooooo hard not to put him in our bed, however, we were getting up 3 or 4 times in the night everytime he would wake up. It was a killer getting such broken sleep. He just wants to be close to us. So, in order to get sleep we allow him to sleep with us after he wakes up the first time.