I went to ChristianMingle.com via Karen's link (Thanks Karen!) and I have emailed a guy already. lol Yea, I took the initiative and emailed first. He emailed me back and said he was happy I looked at his profile and emailed him and asked me questions to email him back on. So lets hope he replies. His pic is cute at least...hehe.
I've gotten a lot of messages on the other site and quite a few have gone to the delete folder right away. One guy msg'd me and I have to msg him back still. But I haven't gotten msgs to the extent you have. And no girls yet either....hehehe