You'll probably have to try a variety and let your daughter tell you. I was a later bloomer, and I didnt have a choice, it was whatever Mom had at the house. I remember feeling like I was carrying a saddle with me. (hence, back in the saddle again) but when I got with friends, and compared I found my own, and told Mom what I liked best, she didnt always buy, but I did tell her cause hers were too "gramma like"
We dont change Gods message, His message changes us.